A Story of Church Bells: with Christmas Decoration

This is the story of a tiny girl, 5 yrs old, who lived in a happy family – a hop, a skip, and a jump  distance from a beautiful  old  church in India, which had a beautiful statue of a mother with a boy in her arms . 

Early every morning, she heard the sound of church bells  and was overjoyed. Maybe,when she was in her mother’s womb, she must have leapt with the sound. She asked her Mom, "Mummy, why do the  chhuch  bells ring  every morning?”  “To ask God to Wake Up  dear!" replied her Mom. “When  we want God to listen to us we have to ring bells to wake God up, so that we will get an answer.” 

So whenever the family went to the temple because they were hindus,  she asked her Dad to lift her up on his shoulder and they  rang the bells  at the entrance with joy.

One day something sad happened. She saw someone  with a knife trying to stab her Dad. Her Mom  shoo-ed away  all the children  and commanded  the tiny  girl to go away  too.

She  ran and ran  on the path where she used to  hop, skip, and jump  to play  on the church grounds.  She ran straight  to a staircase at the side of the church  where hung  HUGE  church bells tied with HUGE and thick  ropes  made of  jute. It was Christmas Eve.

her gifts to God

She climbed up the steps  and tried  to ring the bells, but she could not even move a rope. Her tiny hands were too small to even hold them and they were full of thorns.  By now she was crying, her eyes full of tears. She cried, "God, Wake up! Wake up, God, Wake up" But she could not ring the bells.  She said, "God, I’ll give you what you want. I’ll give you my doll, my compass –box with the new pencil which has a scented  eraser  on top, I won’t  trouble Mom. I’ll drink the Bournvita, I’ll drink the bitter medicines, I’ll do my home-work  on time, I won’t ask for a dotted  frill frock  or sandals  or a new bicycle. Wake up, God  and don’t let him hurt my Dad with the knife."

The tiny girl did not know what is life or death. But she  understood that when some angry man takes a knife  and tries to stab, it can hurt and there can be bloodshed.

She cried and cried but  she could not ring the bells and  so she thought God is sleeping. She too cried and cried till she fell asleep on the steps, holding on to the thorny rope, tightly.

Then suddenly  she woke up.  She felt silent. She came down the steps and went  a hop, a skip,  and a jump  to  her family. There she saw  as she knew in her heart  that she would. Her Dad was safe. Everyone was happy. There was a  nice tea party  where  the man with the knife and  his family and  the tiny girl’s family all had  tea together. They became friends!

God's gift to her !

She went  to bed  with true Peace in  her heart  where the Baby Jesus  was born  to stay there forever! 

 

Since then  they put  tiny bells on the Christmas tree so that little children too can ring them.

HAPPY  CHRISTMAS! MAY  THE LORD JESUS GIVE YOU PEACE, LOVE, AND JOY NOW AND THROUGH THE NEW YEAR.

Consecrated Virginity from an Inter-generational Perspective

Growth-stages, Shades of Charism, or Generation gap between consecrated virgins ?!

The Order of Virgins is both  ancient and new,since its charism originated on the cross of Jesus Christ, went through several challenges, and was revived after the Second Vatican Council.

Since then,thousands of women around the world have received the special consecration. There are three categories of consecrated virgins- 

1. those who were born before the Second Vatican Council which was held from 1962-1965  and have seen life before and after it,
2. those who were born after the Council  between1965-1977 or the Generation X and have not personally experienced the church before it, and
3. the Millennial generation of those born approx. between 1977-1998. 

It is interesting to note the differences between these generations to see how this can help us understand the Order of Virgins  and each other better,and be able to respect  different approaches to the vocation and discern in which direction it should journey.

Each generation has different list of motivations for seeking the consecration of virgins. Most consecrated virgins born before the Second Vatican Council  are ex-religious who asked for the consecration  due to the need of a ceremony or rite so that they could continue with their commitment on their own, without rigid regimentation of religious life which had left a wound on their lives. They could not join secular institutes for various reasons. Some of these ex-religious were drawn towards solitude or individual and independent life-style  as a ‘reaction’ to their negative experiences with religious life.  They have definitely influenced the way consecrated virginity is being lived and understood in the  church today.

The charism, identity and mission of the Ordo Virginum as it originated on the Cross and during the first four centuries of  Christianity,was not revived with the revival of the Rite of consecration to a life of virginity as per canon 604  #1 and #2. Even after receiving this consecration, most of these ex-religious  continued to live the spirituality of the institutes they had left. Some followed the spirituality of  Solitaries / Hermits, Single Lay women or Secular Institutes under the veil of consecrated virginity.

The Post-Vatican II and the Millennial generations are not much influenced by religious life. They tend to see the charism of the Ordo Virginum from the perspective of Early Church. They are not drawn towards an individualistic interpretation of the vocation but see it as communitarian, where the community is the diocese / parish  and also the possibility of several consecrated virgins supporting each other concretely or  living together in association,  as it was with consecrated virgins in the Early Church, who lived together in households, without the regimentation of a religious community. [not the charisms but the lifestyle of movements like the Focolarini, the Teresian Association, etc. ]

An area of concern is the emphasis by some bishops' conferences and even associations of consecrated virgins, on the spousal dimension of the vocation, to the extent that dedication to the service of the Church is suppressed, to mean service only in the form of prayer. This could be because most of the consecrated virgins are of the pre-Vatican II generation and cannot commit themselves to active service in the Church.

Psychological theories mention that healthy development of sexuality  leads to intimacy and solidarity in the age group 18 to 35 yrs  while an unhealthy outcome is isolation. Also, in the age group 35 to 55 a healthy ego development focuses on generativity or care for others. Unhealthy development leads to self absorption and stagnation. There is no understanding of these factors in the living out of celibacy. To expect a celibate to lead a Single life in isolation without community and spend most of her energies focused on prayer, is the antithesis of Christian and  human vocation to relate and to love. 

YOUNG CONSECRATED VIRGINS NEED THE SOLIDARITY OF AN ASSOCIATION THAT IS CONCRETELY SUPPORTIVE AND FORMATIVE  AND ALSO NEED PHYSICAL ACTIVITY AND SERVICES. OLDER CONSECRATED VIRGINS CAN CHOOSE TO BE MORE INDEPENDENT BUT WOULD STILL NEED TO EXPRESS THEIR MATERNAL INSTINCT THROUGH CONCRETELY EXPRESSED  CARE FOR OTHERS. 

It may be justified for contemplative religious who live in community to focus only on  prayer. But the same can be detrimental to the health of a consecrated virgin if she lives alone. A balance of prayer and work, spousal  spirituality and service of the Church is the ideal.

For young consecrated virgins it is psychologically important to have a strong point of reference or some sense of accountability to a person of authority, e.g., the diocesan bishop or a senior consecrated virgin who acts as a mentor or the co ordinator of an association of consecrated virgins [Similar to some sort of support which young couples need in the beginning of married life]. They should not be left to fend for themselves or left high and dry after the consecration ceremony.  A young consecrated virgin needs the tenderness, understanding, and support from seasoned  women in the same vocation if the Ordo Virginum is to survive and grow.

Perhaps there is need of some universal level formative institute that can offer in-depth preparatory and on-going formation and assistance to consecrated virgins and associations, also keeping in mind their cultures, inculturation etc.

Plan of God and Resolution of a virgin

When I started this blog, my intention was to  search  for the Truth about the Identity and Mission of the  Order of Consecrated Virgins in today's Church and world.

In this process, I developed a theology of the vocation of consecrated virginity, not focusing on the Rite of Consecration to a life of Virginity as a  ‘sacramental’(noun) but on its ‘sacramentality.’ This Rite is not among the seven sacraments of the Catholic Church.

I also developed an understanding of the prayer of consecration,  necessary elements for its validity, degrees of effective quality of the seal of consecration, or ‘sacramental’ character and design of the seal  impressed on the virgin. Read my post  here-it's important  for details.

A very important question regarding the DESIGN of the seal of consecration comes to my mind because it is central to the vocation. The most authoritative sources to understand it are 

• the vocation in the history of the Early Church,
• the Rite of Consecration to a life of Virginity present in the Roman Pontifical, and 
• canon 604 in the latest Code of Canon Law of the Catholic Church after Vatican II.

Early Church History does lay emphasis on the Sequela Christi or Following of Christ. This was a general obligation of every disciple of Christ through baptism. Consecrated life demands a special form of  following Him. In some other post, I shall write in depth about this Sequela Christi specifically  for the vocation of consecrated virgins.

The Rite of Consecration to a life of Virginity  mentions about the plan of God and the resolution to follow Christ, at significant moments:

• through the antiphons, e.g., ‘Now with all our hearts we follow you,’
• the suggested homily, ’ Let your light then shine before men and women, that your Father in heaven may be glorified, and his plan of making all things one in Christ come to perfection,’ and  ‘you will sing a new song as you follow the Lamb of God wherever he leads you.’
• the examination by the bishop, 'Are you so resolved to follow Christ in the spirit of the Gospel that your whole life may be a faithful witness to God’s love and a convincing sign of the kingdom of heaven?’
• the renewal of intention,’ Father, receive my resolution to follow Christ in a life of perfect chastity which, with God’s help, I here profess before you and God’s holy people.’
• the prayer of consecration,’ Lord, look with favor an your handmaids. They place in your hands their resolve to live in chastity.’

Canon 604 §1 and §2  mentions about the resolution to follow Christ:

Can. 604 § 1.  Hisce vitae consecratae formis accedit ordo virginum quae, sanctum
propositum emittentes Christum pressius sequendi, ab Episcopo dioecesano iuxte probatum
ritum liturgicum Deo consecrantur, Christo Dei Filio mystice desponsantur et Ecclesiae
servitio dedicantur.
§ 2.  Ad suum propositum fidelius servandum et ad servitium Ecclesiae, proprio statui
consonum, mutuo adiutorio perficiendum, virgines consociari possunt.

As mentioned in the Latin version above, the term used  for resolution is propositum which can be translated as PLAN, PROJECT, PURPOSE, DESIGN, THEME OF DISCOURSE, AIM, THESIS, etc. 

Canon 604 in English:

§1. Similar to these forms of consecrated life is the order of virgins, who, committed to the holy plan of following Christ more closely, are consecrated to God by the diocesan bishop according to the approved liturgical rite, are betrothed mystically to Christ, the Son of God, and are dedicated to the service of the Church.
§2. In order to observe their commitment more faithfully and to perform by mutual support service to the Church which is in harmony with their state these virgins can form themselves into associations.

The virgin renews her intention or  propositum  which she has been living for sometime  before it is publicly consecrated in the ceremony.

WHAT IS THIS PLAN OF  GOD IN THE FOLLOWING OF CHRIST, OR THE DESIGN OF THE PERMANENT SEAL OF CONSECRATION, WHICH THE VIRGIN IS COMMITTED TO LIVE FOR HER ENTIRE LIFE ? 

IT IS VIRGINITY FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN, WHICH IS ONLY POSSIBLE WHEN EVERYTHING IN HEAVEN AND EARTH IS UNITED IN CHRIST. THE CONSECRATED VIRGIN IS CALLED TO BE AN IMAGE OF THIS REALITY THROUGH HER ESPOUSAL WITH CHRIST.

10 Even the heavenly forces and powers will now discover through the Church the wisdom of God in its manifold expression, as the plan is being fulfilled

11 which God designed from the beginning in Christ Jesus, our Lord.[ Eph 3:10-11]

See also  Eph 1: 9,13 ; 5: 31-32

The virgin is consecrated to God for the fulfilment of His plan to unite all things in Christ. Her mystical espousal to Christ and her service of the Church, should manifest this mystery of virginity for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven.

More on the Plan of God in the Following of Christ in the vocation of a consecrated virgin  in another post.